A so called friend...
Last year I knew a girl. I thought she was a kick ass person. I thought she was strong, honest, and real.
I did not know she was a liar.
I did not know everything about her was fake.
I did not kow everything she said was a lie.
Last year some friends and I sat together and came to realize that she is a liar. We found out that every story she has told us is not true. We found that everything she has told me contradicts what she has told someone else. We found out that she is a pathological liar with some serious fucked up issues.
I thought that the similarities in our lives was a coincidence. I did not realize that she was jealous to that extent. I did not realize that she was making all that shit up.
I thought that the men she knew were only friends... I did not realize why they all treated her as more than a friend. I did not realize that she has probably slept with them all.
I thought she hated my boyfriend and thought I deserved better. I did not realize that she was grabbing his ass as he held me. I did not realize that the necklines got lower and lower whenever he was around.
I thought she would be happy for me when I got offered a kick ass job. I did not know that she would go behind my back and apply for the same one. I did not know that she would start talking shit about me to the people I used to work with.
I valued her and her friendship. I was naive and thought that she was a real friend.
Even in the end, I went to her to tell her how pissed off I was with all that I found out. I told her that she should change her lifestyle because she deserved better. I still went to her as a friend to end the friendship.
And she still decided to talk shit about me.
I am glad I was the naive one, I would much rather be naive than fucked up like her. I would much rather be naive than a whore like her. I would much rather be naive than a fucked up liar like her.
posted by Nora @ 9:18 AM
10 Comments:
she's a sick person... you forgot to mention when she lied about having six months to live... was it six months??? anyway I don't know why you'd even put the effort to write a whole post about her... she's not worth it
She is sick...
yeah, I think it was 6 months.. which supposedly prompted her to finish her university faster.. because you know when you have 6 months to live you really try to finish your bachelors!!!
It makes perfect sense...
Hmm, what prompted me? Not sure really.. but I think she has started talking shit again...
You're right though.. she is not worth it.
There was a movie with Bridget Fonda about 10 years ago with similar storyline. Maybe your so-called friend saw this movie and used it as the basis for her pitiful life. Just remember, God doesn't like ugly. Love you and I think you are the bomb!!! ps- do I know this person by any chance?
Hmm, She might have used the movie.. or she might just be fucked up!
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Yeah, you do know this person! You are very smart!!!
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Miss you..
"I am glad I was the naive one, I would much rather be naive than fucked up like her"
somehow, there is a relief in knowing you did nothing wrong and that you don't need to worry about karma when things finally start falling to place!! this is what you should hold on to!!
and the way you confronted her shows grace... which will probably spite her even more :)
I am glad that I did nothing wrong. I was pissed for a long time.. but then I was actually glad that I was probably one of the better friends she has ever had...
I am glad I do not have to worry about karma about this, you're right....
You are an optimist.. aren't you?
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Yes sadly Nora there are people that low, sick and fucked up. She's beyond pathetic. I used to know this girl in college who I thought was a friend (however I never trusted her for some reason - intuition I guess). She would dress like me, try to talk like me, try to act like me, wear similar makeup and colors. She was so jealous of me she would talk behind my back with totally mean and irrelevant stuff and before me, a big smile was on her face.
That's sick Nora. That's someone who believes they have no real value or worth in life and so must go on imitating other people who they believe are far better than themselves, setting them as role models perhaps...
You shouldn't have talked to her at all after all that. Ignorance kills in such a situation because all she's craving is attention.
And yes she's like the movie with Bridget Fonda. I think it was called "Single White Female".
You're a wonderful person, Nora. Keep that in mind.
Marwa,
Yeah, it is sad. I am glad that I am not like that. To be so jealous must be bad for the soul.
I have not spoken to her since then...
One day I was feeling bad for her and missing the fun we used to have. I was going to call her... and that was when I found out about some more shit that she had done. SO, I changed my mind.. Now the mere thought of her actually disgusts me.
u figured me out haven't u? :D
i am an optimist!! despite my two years of depression and my complete belief that life sucks and ppl are no good!!!
but i guess once the negative influence was out, my spirits were back...
yes nora, things WILL fall to place... i am almost 100% certain... just be sure you recognize the moment and enjoy it to the max :)
and what is that business of calling her up cause u missed the fun!!! DON'T
Yeah.. 2 years of depression and a belief that people are no good definitely makes you an optimist!!!
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Seriously, it is great that you see the good in life.
I am waiting and I hope that I will recognize it when it happens... I cannot wait to enjoy it...
I wanted to call her during a moment of weakness.. but luckily I found out more horrible things that she did and I decided that I will never even think about how much fun we did have..
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